Bullying.....

I just wanna take a moment to talk about a very important subject but often one that is overlooked, bullying. Bullying is never ok!

I myself have been bullied throughout my life for all different reasons & I just want to say it hurts!! Something that hurts someone even if it's not physical is still BULLYING! A good friend of mine was recently bullied off youtube. Sam Schuerman & her family took time out of their days to film and put it up for us 'fans' so to speak. However thanks too a few douchebags she had had enough & got rid of everything, this shouldn't be allowed to happen. She is a spectacular woman & a brilliant role model. She's pulled me through a lot of crap & I love her & her family. If you don't have anything nice to say then keep your mouth shut! SIMPLE. 

I also just want to say that if you are being bullied don't ever let it get to you I know it may be hard & I've let it get to me in the past but you shouldn't because that's what they want! If you are a bully I just have one thing to say to you..... GROW UP! Put yourself in their shoes would you like to be beaten down everyday & made to feel like nothing? No so stop being a jackass & actually be nice to people.

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Byeee

Love.....

Love can be described in many different ways and can also be felt in different ways. To me there are a few phrases that describe love.

"Love is when you could be anywhere in the world but you choose to be with them because life is better with them by your side"

"Love is when you know more about someone than they do themselves"

I know it sounds ridiculous but I love love, it makes everything better, it makes us smile a little bigger, laugh a little louder and walk with a spring in our steps. I've been lucky enough to be in love and still am. Love can be hard, its not always a walk in the park but if you're willing to put the effort in it can be magical. Love is made up of many different elements.... Honesty, passion, commitment, trust, loyalty & faith. The most unfortunate part of love is that people give up too early, they hit a bump and give up trying its so upsetting to see. Your lover should be your best friend you should be able to share everything with that person. When you find someone who supports you no matter what, who loves you unconditionally & who would sacrifice anything to be with you then never let them go. Soulmates are hard to find and a lot of people waste time on all the wrong people when the right person has been there all along. No matter what life throws at you or how hard it may seem sometimes never stop loving because you never know what's around the corner.

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Forgiveness....

Forgiving someone can be a hard thing to do depending on the situation it can be quite hard to fix or overcome. Forgivness usually goes hand  in hand with forgetting, personally I find forgiveness easier I have forgiven a lot of things in the past but never really forgotten about them.
Sometimes it's hard to forgive but I always try because if it came down too it I would want someone to forgive me and give me a second chance. Forgiveness isn't all about chances though it's about truly believing that the person deserves it and is sorry for what they have done. I've seen a lot of situations in the past where people have refused to forgive when thats really what they should have done. It isn't easy but a lot of the time it makes things better. For example my boyfriend cheated on me one time and I forgave him because I loved him, I knew he was sorry and he wouldn't repeat the action. If the situation had been reversed I would've expected the same consideration. I'm not saying cheating is ever ok but it depends on the situation and how it's handled. I always try and forgive people for wrong things they have done because I'm just a compassionate person, I've forgivven a lot of people and some have repeated their wrong some haven't but all I will say is that it's at least worth trying.


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Goodbyes...

Goodbyes are never easy, or wanted but unfortunately they are inevitable.
I've had to say goodbye to a lot of people that I wish were still here in my life, just because you say goodbye to someone it doesn't mean they dont consume your heart.
Goodbyes can come in many forms, it can be the death of a loved one, the death of a pet or losing the love of your life. Unfortunately I've experienced all of those some more recently than others and let me tell you something... every goodbye hurts, sometimes more than the last but you have to push yourself forward.
Some goodbyes are forever some are only for a little while but it doesn't mean they hurt any less. The one thing I've learnt after all these goodbyes is to not give up hoping, giving up on yourself gets you nowhere and you have to have something to believe in. In my life I've had to say goodbye to grandparents, an uncle, an auntie, my dad & many many pets. These don't come back, so just make sure that you love everyone as if your next goodbye is tomorrow because the truth of the matter is the next goodbye is most likely close by.
Remember just because you have to say goodbye don't stop saying hello.


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Inspiration....

What inspires me?......
Alot of things have moved me or inspired me in the past but I have a few important ones I'd like to talk about.

1. My family - My family are the greatest. They have always been there for me and I suppose everyone can say that about their family but mine is different I've had a tough time since I was about 11 so roughly 10 years and through that time my family has been there for me no matter what they have been there to comfort me and make me laugh and pull me through the bad parts. Now my dad died when I was 14 and it was devastating. There was now only 3 of us left but this is why my mum inspires me the most, instead of collapsing on the ground after losing my dad she picked herself up and kept going she struggled sure but she always made sure me and my brother were happy, even to this day she is still my rock and is currently helping me through another tough time. I love my family more than anything in this world and I can honestly say I don't think I'd be here if it wasn't for them.


2. The Schuermans - The Schuermans are a family that I am subscribed too on Youtube. It started off with just Sam and her make up and style videos & then she got Jay involved and now they have a son Phoenix and their little dog Moo. They inspire me so much! Whenever I've had a rough day or something isn't going quite how I planned I just sit and watch their videos on youtube they are so happy all the time and so helpful. I really feel like they are my friends and it's my dream to meet them one day. They make me realise that I should be myself and that I shouldn't let anything bring me down. They give excellent advice and it always feels like they actually listen to and care about the things I say. I love them very much! www.youtube.com/schuermanshow



3. Ugly Betty - Now this is an odd thing to be inspired by but I am. I see a lot of myself in the show the troubles she faces and things like that but she's always so positive I really do try to think the same way. Sometimes when I'm watching it I feel like a part of it and it makes me feel good to know that I can take advice from the characters if my situations are similar to theirs. I also always wanted to work in fashion and watching Ugly Betty inspires me not to give up on that dream. A lot of people or things have given up on me but this has always stuck.


I hope you enjoyed my inspirations, please feel free to comment.

See you next time.